I seldom write a “To Do List.” I have a day-planner type of calendar on my desk and I note obligations on it. But I don’t write a list of tasks to accomplish. Perhaps it’s too depressing knowing that my time and energy is limited. I’m just not a “To Do List” kind of girl.
But today was an exception. Today, I located some 3×5 index cards and jotted down a list and timetable. It went something like this:
Make dip/bake cookies
Hair & Makeup – 3 PM
Dinner in CrockPot – 3:30 PM
Ride to _____’s – 3:45 PM
Church – 4:30 PM
The list was written after I had already worked at my real job (on the computer) for about an hour. I finished up and headed to the kitchen by 12:15 PM and began cleaning up and baking cookies. I even put dinner into the CrockPot at about 2:30 PM–ahead of schedule–and by 3 PM, I had finished baking cut-out cookies (known to some people as “sugar cookies”) and Peanut-Butter blossoms (you know, those delicious little peanut butter cookies topped with Hershey’s kisses).
The dishwasher was humming along and I was about to head upstairs to begin primping (and spackling and doing all the things that 50-year old women have to do before appearing in public so people will not think they are ill or about to croak; it involves primer and concealer and lipstick and a curling iron).
Then I received a text message at 3:03 PM from one of my kids. It said, “Need to be leaving in 10 minutes.”
I found this message puzzling. What? Where? Why? A quick consultation with my husband revealed a terrible truth. The offspring in question had not coordinated his need for a ride with his dad’s schedule. In fact, they were both heading to the same location, but the son needed to arrive by 3:30 PM while my husband was not leaving our home until 3:30 PM.
This was a miscommunication. This was a problem. The son thought he had communicated his schedule to me but he apparently failed to take into account the limited brain-storage space I have for the details of other people’s lives. His brief mention of this obligation last Sunday did not really register with me at all. In other words, I had NO IDEA he thought I knew he needed a ride today.
So, instead of “Hair & Makeup” at 3 PM, I drove my son to his rehearsal while my husband finished showered. When I returned home 30 minutes later, I was thirty minutes behind schedule. I delivered another child to another location . . . then had about 15 minutes to do my make-up and hair and to get dressed.
We arrived at the Christmas Eve service five minutes before the starting time. Normally I am not a stickler for being on time (at some point, I just capitulated) but tonight I had to be on time because I had to read the Scripture passage before the sermon. And so, I did.
All was calm. All was bright.
Then we came home, ate dinner (fajitas in the CrockPot, who knew?) and then I worked a five hour shift.
Now, it’s late, so late it’s early, and I have to arrange gifts around the tree and stuff stockings before crawling into bed. Fortunately, the kids are old enough to value sleeping in at least a little.
I do have to note that while I was driving around in frantic irritation at the disruption of my schedule, I thought of Mary the mother of Jesus . . . how her life was disrupted. Aren’t children just the biggest disruption ever? That’s something to think about.
That thought did calm me down a little. And then I thought how maybe having a little more margin in my life might be a tiny bit helpful. And then I thought about my friend MaryKay reading a book about “margin” a long time ago and then my thoughts just ricocheted in a half a dozen directions and it’s lucky that I didn’t get into a traffic accident on the way home because I was so distracted by my thoughts and by my mild panic about the time. (Also, I might have said at some point, “So basically, I am the one who will look like CRAP tonight. Also? I will not be wearing clothes since I have NO TIME to get dressed!!”)
Merry Christmas to all and to all, a good-night!
Here’s a photo of my kids from ten years ago and a re-creation of the same photo today. You’re welcome.
3 thoughts on “Interrupted”
oh my word…i love the picture!! your daughter cracks me up!!
Merry Christmas to you and your family. Thank you for sharing your life with me this year, it is a joy and an encouragement.
Gods blessings to you all! xoxoxo
Have I ever told you how amazing you are? Well, you are amazing! There, I said it. It’s a wonder you can keep it all together. But I love that you take the time to share the happenings – the crazy happenings – with us. And the picture on here is great – I hadn’t noticed when I first saw it on my phone that you even have them wearing very similar clothing 10 years later. This is classic. Fun.
Thank you, as always.
Love, love, love the photo. I can’t believe that you were able to re-create it, down to the details of the plaids. Amazing.
Hope you had a wonderful Christmas and you are not alone in cleaning mode; I’ve been doing the same.